5/25/2008

Outside The Comfort Zone

Things We Don’t Want To Do

Most of us have had the experience of tackling some dreaded task only to come out the other side feeling invigorated, filled with a new sense of confidence and strength. The funny thing is, most of the time when we do them, we come out on the other side changed and often wondering what we were so worried about or why it took us so long. We may even begin to look for other tasks we’ve been avoiding so that we can feel that same heady mix of excitement and completion.

Whether we avoid something because it scares us or bores us, or because we think it will force a change we’re not ready for, putting it off only creates obstacles for us. On the other hand, facing the task at hand, no matter how onerous, creates flow in our lives and allows us to grow. The relief is palpable when we stand on the other side knowing that we did something even though it was hard or we didn't want to do it. On the other hand, when we cling to our comfort zone, never addressing the things we don’t want to face, we cut ourselves off from flow and growth.

We all have at least one thing in our life that never seems to get done. Bringing that task to the top of the list and promising ourselves that we will do it as soon as possible is an act that could liberate a tremendous amount of energy in our lives. Whatever it is, we can allow ourselves to be fueled by the promise of the feelings of exhilaration and confidence that will be the natural result of doing it.

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When faced with intensely overwhelming difficulty, the common tendency is to procrastinate and drift away with time because we think there is nothing we can do about the situation that could make an impact or difference. But what many people don't know is that it seems paradoxical that there are some very good things which we could accomplish only during our times of utter helplessness.

It is only in such times that we grow more mature and come to realize the true potential of the inner strengths that God had bestowed upon us. Hardship has the unique capability of activating the dormant strengths within us.


It is God who girds me with strength, and makes my way perfect. He makes my feet like hinds' feet, and sets me upon my high places. (Psalms 18:32-33)

The Lord said to me [Paul], “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Most gladly therefore I will rather glory in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest on me. (2 Corinthians 12:9)